The other day i saw Cheeni Kum, Starring Amitabh Bachchan and Tabu. There came on a dialouge which i think is worth a debate and i found it judgmental. "Sex is the price women pay for marriage and marriage is the price man pays for sex! Dont know about others but i found it a bit akward that, people believe that only men are interested in sex and a girl never has her share of interest or pleasure!
What i feel is Men are out for either lust or love and usually don't mix
them up. When a man is out for lust, all that he really desires from her is sex .
He does not take her seriously and does not have intentions of ending up
with her. He is just in it for fun.
When a man is out for love, he will wait much longer because he desires
more than just sex. He desires and needs her support, and want her to be
with him together. When a man is in love with a woman and she has never
been with another man, it'll make him feel good.
The way to tell if a man has serious intentions is if he waits a long time
and/or gives her a commitment. It is this love that transforms into sex.
Women's since ancient times wantsecurity....and therefore MARRIAGE exists. Thus there are 2 categories ofmen wanting sex, one out of lust and other due to pure relationship and
faith in partner which is cordial!. so YOU CANNOT GENERALIZE IT!
Though it is not to meant personally (it hurts men)!:-)
faith in partner which is cordial!. so YOU CANNOT GENERALIZE IT!
Though it is not to meant personally (it hurts men)!:-)